Saturday, October 2, 2010

I love Saturday mornings.

If you know me well, or at all, you know that I do NOT love the cold. In fact, I kind of hate it. I do however enjoy the inbetween summer and fall period before it gets really cold. 

Just so you know I'm not a total hater about the weather, here are some things I love about pre-winterchillyweathertime:
  • Hot bevvies
  • Craft. Fairs. (Mom just told me Applefest is this weekend!)
  • Holiday decorations...not really halloween, but fall/Thanksgiving/Christmas
  • Leaves changing colors
  • Being able to wear shorts and long sleeves
  • Using the feet heater

This has been an unusually busy week, so I was really excited for a weekend with the girls thrifting, yard selling (saling?), and just hanging out. 

Even better, I got a bonus--usually Thursdays are my least favorite day. I have stuff from 8am-10pm, so they just aren't fun. This Thursday however, staff meeting got canceled, and someone was working my desk shift for me, so I was free at 2pm! Wooooo! Sure, I could've been productive and done a lot of things that "needed" to be done, but guess what I did instead?

I along with my friends Rachel, Kelly, and Kelsey went to Mama Z's in Tontitown for dinner and then we drove to Siloam Springs to go to Barnett's and get shakes. I'd never been to Barnett's, but I am now a fan. The peanut butter fudge shake=best.  

The thrifting, saling, and hanging out was wonderful as well. We had a few good finds as well as a few funny ones. Bunny statue collections at an "estate sale" for example. (It was a lammmeeee excuse for an estate sale.)

On a totally different, but still very autumny note I'm currently loving banjo-y music. Autumn is a bluegrassy season. Here are some faves:

Weepies 
Alison
Perry
Civs 

Lovelovelove

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Does this count as an update?

Y'all. I think this is really funny. I don't have a mini van or a family (I mean I'm not a mom. I have a family.), but I still think it's hysterical. 

Monday, September 20, 2010

It's 1am, and I have homework due at 8am that I've yet to start. Oops.

Top 5 favorite things right now:

  1. The 5th floor and the girls that live on it.
  2. How God created us for community. 
  3. Coffee (I think this is almost always on my T5)
  4. The idea of heaven being a home. 
  5. Living and loving Jesus and not living and loving a list. 
I'll elaborate on these later. For now, you should think about these things. :) 

Lovelovelove

Thursday, September 16, 2010

Do you know much about tanning lotion? You don't do you.....

Yes. That (if you didn't already, please note the title) was said to me. I know. You're shocked. Believe it or not folks this bronzed glow is all natural.
Sidenote: In case you didn't know, my parents bought a tanning salon (Tan with TLC on Garland), and so I help out as any daughter would.

I spent more time there on Tuesday than I've spent in a tanning salon ever. Promise. I'm not really a tanner. Let's be real though-it's a pretty great job. The shop bought me pizza, and my sweet boyfriend brought me a milkshake (without me asking. duh). Hard life.
So, here's the deal, y'all: after obsessing over a few blogs of women that I adore and want to be someday, I decided that I would do better to keep up with my own. I mean, if they can make time with their children, husbands, and grown-up lives surely a senior in college can, right? We'll see. :) That along with my bestie being across the country and encouragement from others led me to commit to this whole blog thing til the end of the year (for now). 

I hope you enjoy it. Tell me if I'm slacking. I'll do better. :)

Saturday, August 21, 2010

Still feels like India....

So, I've been back for a little over a month now and am living in Humphreys once again. In case any of you forgot or don't know, Humphreys doesn't have AC. All that to say it sometimes feels like India when I wake up drenched in sweat. Although it still really isn't near as hot here, it reminds me a lot of summer. 

I promised one more India post, and although it's late, here it is. Enjoy!

I learned a ton this summer. After thinking and praying through it, I made a list (because I love lists) of some of the big things I've learned. Here are a few:

-I'm really dependent on my friends and family. This summer I was forced to depend on the Lord and prayer, and it was incredible and necessary (and an answered prayer!). 
-God is faithful. I knew this before, but didn't experience like I did this summer. He is faithful to come through always and in His perfect timing (example; support). He is faithful to answer prayers, and He is faithful to always listen to us and love us even though we don't deserve it. One small way I realized that this summer was when I was praying about our trip to the Taj. Among other things I was praying for a safe trip because it was a 4 hour drive, and driving in India is scary to me. I've prayed for safe travels many times, generally because I feel like I should, but this time I really felt like we needed the Lord to get us there and back safely. At that moment I realized on a very small scale how faithful He is to listen and care for us, and answer us even when we aren't praying for the right reasons. Needless to say, I feel like I know His heart and desire for us to pray much more now than I did before. That makes my heart smile. 
-God is good and merciful in all situations. Even when we were in the slum, even when we were hot, even when I saw beggar children, God was and is always good. One way He really blessed Beka and I this summer was by giving us the ability to not be blinded to the horrible things around us (like the beggar children or the dead rats we were stepping over in the slum water that the children played in), but still not to be so overwhelmed by them that we couldn't function. As I said earlier, India bombards all of your senses, and there is just so much going on that it would be really easy to focus on that instead of what we there to do. God allowed to see and experience so many things, but not be overwhelmed by them. 
-Just by working with both Hindu and Muslim women this summer, God grew my heart for both of them a TON! I have prayed for Hindus and Muslims many times, but again, it was more because I should, and I wanted to be obedient.
-I learned a lot about the importance of rest this summer. Spiritual, mental, and physical rest. Indians value rest, I think, much more than Americans do. Granted, we may get more done in a day, but Indians value relationships more than getting stuff done. This can be frustrating, but through Didi caring about how much rest we got I learned a lot about how much God cares for us and our well-being. 

Even though the summer is over I would love to ask you to continue to pray with me. Here are some things I'm praying for:
-Each of the women I met/worked with this summer. I would LOVE to give you a specific one to pray for if you'd like. :) Seriously, ask me. 
-That I wouldn't put this summer away in a shoebox, and pull it out just to tell stories. I want God to continue to work in my heart with the things I experienced this summer. 
-For guidance. I graduate in a year and have no idea what I'm going to do. That is both scary and exciting. 


Here are 2 videos for you if you're interested. The first one is about the organization we worked with. The second is of my sweet friend, Priyanka. The slum you see in the videos is the one we worked with, and the women/children shown are the ones that we worked with as well. 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RABTX2rHyGY

I will attempt to keep up this blog thing during school for those of you that have asked, but don't get your hopes up. :)

Lovelovelove. 

Monday, July 12, 2010

So, it's been a while.....

I know. I said I'd do better at posting this summer. BUT, our computer access was super cut off, so I didn't really have a chance. (by cut off I mean the people who owned the computer needed it, so we didn't have one anymore. Ha.) Anyways, I'm sorry. I'll update you and then some and even post some pictures to show you what's been up.

Right now I'm sitting in Orlando! We are home safely after lots and lots of traveling! I'm happy and sad to be back at the same time. Again, thank you so much for supporting me and praying for me. Y'all are the only reason this summer could happen.

I don't really remember what all I've told you, so my apologies in advance for any repetitive info.

The organization we work with, Sahayak (I can use names and stuff now that I'm back!), does the income-generation program for the women that live in the slum. We were asked to create a product for them to make that could be sold in the States/the western world. After trying all sorts of jewelry, headbands, and Christmas ornaments, we came up with (with the help of Sarah Allen......a chai packet! Everyone in India drinks chai. All the time. At home, I don't like chai. In fact, after having it from Starbucks, I hated it. Ha. But, it's so good and so much different in India. Chai is literally tea. Chai means tea in Hindi. They add some spices to some, which I think is what most coffee shops/restaurants at home are shooting for when they serve it, but it's not the same. We made 40 packets as testers/samples to bring home with us, and if they go well, Sahayak will start making them and selling them! Each packet contains the tea, sugar, spices, instructions, and a strainer to make real, delicious chai. And, they all come in cute bags that we bought at one of the many incredible markets we visited. I'll have a few of the packets left at home, they're $5 if you wanna buy one, but even if you don't, let me know what you think about them. Do you think they will sell or is it silly? Shoot me straight. We need to know more for them than for us. :)

Now to the markets. There are tons and tons of different markets here. I could've spent so so much money, but luckily, I didn't bring a ton. We went to an export reject market where a lot of Old Navy, Gap, etc. reject (messed up) clothing is sold. I think this was my favorite market. They also had housewares, shoes, jewelry, bags, my teammate Beka bought peacock feathers. It was great. Of all the markets, there a few wholesale markets that sell almost anything you can imagine in bulk for ultra cheap. They are filled with people all the time, as everything else in India is, and can be one of the most overwhelming things you experience ever. We bought things like tea strainers, tea, sugar, beads, ribbons, wire, hooks, and bags there. You can also go to the steel market or the plastic market or what I like to call the party favor market to look for other specific things. Seriously. They have everything. Here's a picture of one that we frequented for jewelry supplies for Sahayak. 
It was pretty early, so it wasn't super crowded then. And, please notice the power lines. They were like this in every market we went to. It's really funny/neat/scary to me. Ha. Within the markets there are usually temples and mosques. Here are some beautiful doors that were part of Jain community in one of the markets we went to. Aren't they so colorful and fun?! (If you wanna learn about Jainism, here ya go: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jainism. I didn't really know a ton about it before.)

 We also visited a Hindu temple while we were there. It was really sad. They are EVERYWHERE. I saw people praying to these creepy looking little statues and presenting them with offerings. As we walked through, our Indian friend told us what each one was. We walked through again and just prayed for Hindus and the temple and the people there. It was heartbreaking. Here are two of the probably hundreds I saw this summer.

OH! We got to go the Taj Mahal! It was so fun! Beka and I went with our Didi (I don't know if I told you, but Didi means eldest sister in Hindi, and that's what we called our Indian girl friend who took us everywhere. We love her and miss her tons.) We left at 6am and rode 4hrs in a car to Agra. We got a tour guide named Lucky who loved Didi. Here are some pictures of the drive there and the Taj itself. This was the one and only time I wore my jeans there this summer. I only did that because our car was air conditioned (praise the Lord. AC is not normal here.) I still regretted it.
The really colorful picture on the right is the back of a truck. All of the trucks here are super colorful and super painted. Also, all of the pictures above are totally normal things in India that you see on a day to day basis. Crazy right?
I had to.
We had to wear shoe covers, but we wanted to be cool, so of course we didn't actually cover our feet. So cool, I know.
Our auto had to stop one day to get fuel, so while we were waiting the driver let us have a photo shoot. It was fun. :)
Those are my dirty feet from walking through a market when it started raining. During the end of our time here, the monsoon came, so it rained tons. It helped the weather a lot though. We moved from around 115ish to 95-100ish. It was great!

Without a doubt, my FAVORITE thing we did in India was go to the slum. We went about twice a week, and we also saw the women when they were making jewelry. I love them. They are so sweet and kind and generous and welcoming. And, oh the children. I cannot talk about them without getting a huge smile on my face, and I'm nearly crying thinking that it's more unlikely than likely that I will ever see them again. But, here a few gems for you. I'll try to keep them minimal even though I could post tons.
That's all I have for now. I'll continue to post a few more things as we go through debrief, but hopefully this is more than enough for you for now. I miss you all! See you soon!

Friday, June 25, 2010

Halfway Finished!

It's so crazy how fast time goes by here. I am now nearly halfway through my time here. I know it's been a while, but here's a little bit of what I've been doing. :)

We went to Jama Masjid one day, (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jama_Masjid,_Delhi) and it was crazy. The mosque itself was beautiful, but it was so sad. Also, we burnt our feet off. You have to take your shoes off to go in, and I don't know if I've mentioned this, but it's stinkin hot here. We were there at like noon, so it was extra hot. My feet were sore for days. I made friends with three 8-10ish year old boys who used the few English sentences they knew on me. They asked my name, where I was from, one called the other crazy, and one said, "I'm fine?" Yep. He made it sound like a question. It was precious.

Yesterday, we went to a Hindu temple. It was creepy and sad. All of the idols here are crazy, but in the temple, seeing people worship them is really heartbreaking. They offer them food, and pour milk on their heads, etc. It's crazy because some of them barely have enough to eat, but they still continue to do it.

I'm learning how to cook! I may have already mentioned that, but I'm really excited. I can make like 5 or 6 things now! Well, I can help someone make them. Hopefully, I'll be able to make them on my own at home.

Shopping here is crazy. You bargain almost everywhere you go. It's kind of fun, but towards the end of the day I really would prefer fixed, not super marked up prices. Still though, their "expensive" stuff is really not that much to most Americans.

We've been to the slum 3 or 4 times, and it is my absolute favorite thing we do. The children teach me Hindi words which I love because they're kids, and I remember them better that way. Yesterday we got to just sit with the women in the literacy class and ask them questions about their life. It was so great! Our Indian friend (Didi...well, that's what we call her. It means eldest sister in Hindi) translated everything back and forth for us. She's so awesome. We spend a ton of time with her. She teaches us things, helps us out a ton, but still makes us do things on our own. She's a super servant too. I love being around her. (Which is good because we're with her like 6 days a week.) :)

I. Love. Indian. Children. They're all soooooooooooooooooo cute. Really. It's really hard for me to see them selling magazines, vases, statues, etc. in the streets at night. It's even harder for me to see them begging for money for food, but when you offer them food they refuse it.

We're creating a new product for the company we're working with, and I'm really excited because we're bringing them back to the states to test sell it there. Get excited.

We're going to the Taj Mahal tomorrow! I'm so excited!!!!!!!!

Oh, and I got a hoop nose ring. Sorry daddy. (I'll put the sparkly back in when I come home:)

I have so much more to tell you, but that's all for now. I'll try to update sooner next time. :)

Lovelovelove you all!

Oh, and here are a few more points for you
-Continued unity and closeness for Beka and I.
-That we can make the best use of the remainder of our time here and serve everyone we're around as much as possible.
-Continued safety. Being a white girl here is a little weird. We stick out a lot. Ha.
-That the women and children in the slum would know that we genuinely care about them, and that we can be some sort of light to them.